Women’s pleasure is the gateway for men

A woman’s natural state is pleasure. When she relaxes and softens, she's overflowing with pleasure. This is because the feminine can feel and receive so deeply. Men don't have this is as their natural state. That's why men crave the feminine and sex. Sex is a way to get access to the feminine pleasure. The feminine invites the masculine into her pleasure so that the masculine may experience a piece of the infinite pleasure that's available. While the feminine needs the masculine spaciousness, presence and emptiness to explore how deep this pleasure can go.

But this is also why men often orgasm a lot faster. They aren't used to this amount of pleasure and feeling, so they need to release. Women naturally have a bigger capacity to experience and hold pleasure because that's their natural state. But women too, can struggle with holding pleasure. They can also feel like they want to release and/or force it to happen before she has swam in the ocean of pleasure. Before she has explored all the different waves of pleasure that are available to her.

Women have been told that their pleasure is something to be ashamed of and definitely not shown in public. This is because it's so damn powerful. A woman embodied in her pleasure can magnetise anything she want to her, because who or what wouldn't want to experience a piece of the pleasure they can sense and see in her?

Because of the powerful magnetisation that happens when the feminine is embodied in her sensual, seductive, pleasurable energy, she can also attract energies she doesn’t want. This is where the fear of the masculine comes in. When the (unhealed) masculine sees an embodied feminine, his instincts is to grab it because it draws him in so strongly (that’s what seduction and the feminine does). Just observing a woman embodied in her sensual, seductive, pleasure can already be too much for the unhealed masculine to hold where he craves the release too much. He wants a piece of that infinite pleasure because the feminine is the portal to a world he cant go to without. That’s why the feminine also often holds fear for her own magnetisation (including myself). She needs to set strong boundaries and be very specific on who she shares her energy with. She needs to feel confident in herself that she’ll retract her energy from any place or person that doesn’t feel safe to her.

Its an honour for the masculine to be invited into the feminine pleasure. The feminine doesn't do it for him, it's not about the pleasure of the masculine. It's about the pleasure of the feminine, through her pleasure he's able to experience that kind of infinite pleasure himself.

Now a lot of men try to force her pleasure. They often don't take the time to warm her body up, to make it nice and juicy down there because they think it's about their pleasure (or a lack of confidence so they don’t even really try). They think they'll experience pleasure by taking it and simply feeling the vagina around the penis. When in actuality it's her pleasure that's the gateway to his own. The more pleasure the feminine experiences, the more you'll automatically get invited into her pleasure too and her pleasure goes to infinite heights, which means you can go to infinite heights.

Without the feminine pleasure you'll only scratch the surface of how deep it can actually go. Because the feminine pleasure can heal, create, birth, release, connect you to the infinite loving consciousness and bring you to points you never thought possible.