Being a healer teaches you unconditional love
Healing energy is unconditional love. The more pure/clean you’re able to allow love to flow through you, the more powerful the healing. The more able you are to step aside from all your personal judgements, attachments, ties and contracts, the more powerful the healing. It’s about being a “clean” vessel for love to move through you.
Maybe you dislike a certain person that comes to you for healing. You may not approve of their behavior or actions, yet you need to have the ability to set that aside and allow a clean unconditional love to move through you. Because if you’re not able to set the judgements and experiences of the human aside, the healing won’t be as powerful.
And that doesn’t mean to push them away. It means to allow love to transmute those denser emotions within yourself first, so that the love you sent, actually comes from an authentic place. You need to be able to at least do it while you’re in a healing session.
That’s why so many healers say it’s really difficult to do it with family members or people they know. It’s their inability to completely step aside and allow themselves to fall into unconditional love/allow it to move through them without it getting distorted by their own judgements, feelings and emotions.
It asks you to love unconditionally. To not hold on to any pain, resentment, sadness or whatsoever but to instead forgive, release and return to what we are, love.